In a new interview with Holly Williams of CBS Sunday Morning, the 60-year-old actor said he still grieves over the loss of Kate, who died of breast cancer at the age of 47 in 2009.

“You never stop grieving,”You never stop grieving.

“It’s still hard after 11 years,” he said. “It’s still hard. And it will always be hard. But you can’t let it… and she would never want any of us to ever wallow in that grief and let it take over our lives. She would never want that. She wasn’t like that.”

From 1995 until her death in 2009, the Supernova star was married to Kate.

In 2012, he married Felicity Blunt, an English literary agent and the older sister of Emily Blunt, an actress. Tucci and his second wife had two children: Matteo Oliver, a six-year-old son, and Emilia Giovanna, a two-year-old daughter.